My Goal

I started Network Singles Club to change dating culture in America for the better and heal the growing divide between the sexes. 

My Story

I came to the conclusion that modern dating is flawed through  my own relationship experiences. I dated until my mid 30's, was married for 20 years, and divorced a few years ago. Then I started dating again in middle age.

Dating after my divorce was like stepping out of a time machine and into a mystery. Attitudes towards dating are different today than before my marriage. Many people are discouraged about the prospect of finding a partner. I too had many frustrating and demoralizing experiences dating.  I wanted to understand what was going on, so I went online.

But looking for good dating advice online today is like digging for diamonds in a manure pile. You are more likely to get rage-baited into doomscrolling exaggerated rants about the evils of the opposite sex than to find any helpful information.

Next, I looked to the scientific research and books written by experts with a track record of success. I researched modern dating and relationships intensively for several years. What I learned saddened and shocked me, but also brought me hope.

I realized that the way people in America date today, cold approach dating, just doesn't work well for most people, most of the time. Our great grandparents didn't date this way, and neither do people in Europe or most of the world today. Cold approach dating was invented by Hollywood movies to create drama, and it doesn't work well, unless you happen to be James Bond.

I gradually came to understand that there is a better way, a much better way, to find a mate. A low-stress, fun approach to meeting people and dating that leads to a high chance of success, while eliminating most of the situations people find stressful and objectionable about modern dating practices. The friendship-first approach.

Invitation

I invite you to join me in proving to America that the Network Singles Club approach is a better way to find a partner. Let's build a tribe of supportive friends who will help each other find love! 

My Promise to You

I sincerely hope to see you post your successful love story on this website someday. I promise you that I will do all I can to help you make it happen