A Better Way to Find Love
Modern American Dating Strategies Don't Work, Learn What Does
The Problem for Men
Asking a woman for her number the first time you meet her results in a 4% -15% success rate, but less than 50% of women who give out their number to a stranger respond to a text.
Less than 20% of first dates with strangers lead to a second date, and less than 3% lead to a long-term relationship.
In online dating, the top 10% of good-looking men get all the attention from women, the rest are ignored. The average man has to message hundreds of women to get a date, if he ever gets one. Dating sites have been caught numerous times creating fake profiles to string men along with false hope.
Statistically, a man can expect to be rejected by hundreds of women and spend thousands of dollars on dead-end dates to find a girlfriend by following convention dating practices.
It's no wonder that more single men than ever before have given up on dating.
The Problem for Women
Being approached by a stranger is intimidating, going on a date with a strange man is potentially dangerous.
Online dating creates the illusion of endless choices and encourages chatting with only the most attractive and high-status men; the same few men all the other women on the site are after. These guys may chat a little, then they usually ghost. If they do ever ask you on a date, they are often not who they said they were in the chat room, they may not even look like their pictures when you meet them.
Why these Strategies Don't Work
Because we try to start at the middle stage of the relationship; dating, not the proper beginning stage; developing a real friendship in person
The Solution
How Successful Couples Actually Meet:
90% of people in long-term relationships met their partner through an introduction by a friend, co-worker or family member, and by doing activities together in person, as friends, before dating. 10% met through all other means, including asking out strangers and online dating services.
The best way to get dates with compatible singles is to expand your social network; become friends with many people, spend time with them regularly, and let them be your matchmakers.
Ladies: There is no need to endlessly chat with men online who ghost you or who aren't looking for the same things you are. There is no need to attend random social events, waiting endlessly to be approached by a man you are interested in.
Gentlemen: There is no need for the high stakes emotional gamble of approaching a strange woman and asking for her number, only to suffer the pain of rejection, over and over.
There is no need to waste money on online dating services, only to be ignored or waste time chatting with fake profiles. There is no need to lavish expensive dates on women who only want a free meal and don't return your texts.
Networking is a better way to find love!
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